Above: Jessika reaping the benefits of turning 7! carmel corn and cake made African style!
Day 109– Oct 17, 2005, Monday: Ruth’s adventure
Today was a fun day! In the afternoon, the kids and I, along with a few others from our team, went to do home visits with the children from the preschool. I love going out into the villages – it is so much fun! You never know what will happen. We met first at Teacher Susan’s house (she was our guide and translator). She surprised us with fresh squeezed orange and passion fruit juice! It was awesome! The crazy thing was that she squeezed it herself – by hand. She also brought out a plate covered in deep fried fish (eyes and tails and everything).
It looked disgusting and as she left the room the kids asked me if they had to eat it. I said “yes” and made them try it. To my surprise, and theirs, they liked it and so did I. Then we left her home and headed out to the villages to see some of the children. Jonny got a ride on the teacher’s back again. She makes it look so effortless. We visited Yakubu, Mohamadi, Mercy, and Berney. At Mercy’s both kids were feeling the effects of the juice and we got to experience a village style toilet (a hole in the ground) – Jessika cracks me up – she still can’t get the hang of going that way – she gets so frazzled. Berney’s house was the first “normal” looking house (not made out of mud) that we had visited. It was quite large too. Inside there were many children from babies up to teenagers. As we were sitting and talking I asked his mom how many children she had. She said 5 biological and all the rest were orphans she was caring for. I think I counted at least 15 kids in there – it was amazing! She was such an amazing woman who loves the Lord and loves these kids. Berney prayed for Jessika the other day in class and he sounded like an adult with his language – he totally amazed me! I mentioned this to his mom and said that I think he might be a preacher some day. His eyes got big and he got excited and said “Yes!”. While we were in Berney’s house it had started to rain lightly. As we started to walk back, it started to pour down on us. It is amazing how quickly storms move in here. We debated stopping to find shelter but it was also getting dark, so we decided that rain was better then dark. The kids loved it! We got totally drenched and muddy. A few minutes before the base a man picked us up in his car and drove us the rest of the way. God bless him, we covered his seats with water and mud. We ran into the house and Dave made us some warm Milo (hot chocolate) and the kids got warm bucket baths. God bless Dave – he even got the laundry off the line in time.
At dinner we had chicken (a rare item) – “Yeah God” – and we had both Papaya and Watermelon! It was awesome! Dan Shannon, one of our DTS school leaders, had just arrived from Brazil. He is visiting all the teams and will be with us for the week. It is good to see a familiar face.
Above: the family in the back of the van getting ready for the big drive.
Day 110– Oct 18, 2005, Tuesday: Pack it up
It seems like we were just settling in to this place and it is now time for us to go. We have made some great friends here in this short time. It will be sad to leave them. Of course, this isn’t the final goodbye, as we are going to Soroti for only a week, but when we return we are here for only 2 days, and then we are off to Zimbabwe for the remainder of our outreach.
The kids have been crazy about their new friends from New Zealand. It seems that every second they are begging us to bring them over to “the boys house”. Their names are Jack and Elliot, sons of Paul and Karina. They are here for the next 10 months to help out with the health clinic as she does physical therapy and there is much need for that at the clinic. They are great people. I think the kids mostly like having other kids that they can actually talk with. Most of the local kids know some English, but by the time you mix our kids accent with their accents they really can’t communicate. Jonny and Jack are the same age and look like twins.
Most of today was spent with me chasing the kids (often literally) while Ruth was packing up. Apparently this is how our family packs because you’ve read about this before. Unfortunately in Uganda I don’t have a pool that I can play in with the kids all day (I miss it). We had fun though, and we got packed up.
Jerod stopped by tonight to talk and pray together before we leave. I found out upon reading his email address that his name is actually Gerald. But it sure sounds like Jerod, so I still call him that. He is a great friend. I’ve really enjoyed our conversations together.
Above: a typical Soroti village.
Day 111– Oct 19, 2005, Wednesday: Drive to Soroti
The first shock of the day was when we walked out to breakfast and saw one of the little taxi vans waiting to drive us on the 6 hour journey. “There is no way we are fitting in there!” we said to eachother as we walked up for our morning breadroll with jam. But, sure enough, that was the plan. We threw all of the big suitcases on the top of the van just as the rain started coming down. Then we drove across base to get a tarp and came back an crammed everyone in. 15 of us in all, Fred the base leader was escorting us, Nathan, the driver, Dan, our visiting DTS leader who is here for the week, and then the whole team. It was crowded, but doable.
As we started the drive, the first thing I realized is that as soon as we got out of Jinja the roads got noticeably smoother. They are horribly bumpy in the town of Jinja, I’m not sure why. It was actually a fun drive. I enjoyed seeing a little more of Uganda. We kept hoping to see some sort of animal, even a monkey, but all we saw was goats and cows and chickens along the way.
We stopped in the town of Mbale for lunch. We ate a rather nasty lunch at a hotel there. It seemed like it would be good food, but when we got it…uhhhhg. The fries were described as “quickly coated with cold oil” they were so soggy and nasty. The chicken was very tough and almost unedible. The soda was good. It was fun to watch a football (soccer) game on tv for a while. I also was able to find an ATM in town which is fairly rare. After lunch we drove the rest of the journey, I think it was actually less than 6 hours. It was interesting to see the climate change as we drove north. Jinja is very green and lush (although dirty). Soroti reminds me of central California, except replace the farm houses with little villages.
On arrival at the base in Soroti where we will be sleeping we were greeted with cold cokes and some awesome fried bread things that reminded me of donut holes (so tasty). We quickly loaded our stuff in our assigned rooms and headed off to the orphanage to check it out. We spent about an hour there and played with kids and held babies, just a taste of it, then we headed back for dinner and hanging mosquito nets and moving in. Dinner was amazing, I didn’t realize how much I missed vegetables. The food was very similar to what we have been eating, but just a little more meat, a little more veggies and cold water. Then we had some coffee and tea after dinner (we are getting spoiled).
Above: our glorious room, mosquito nets and laundry and all. Below: the team posing at the gate to the orphanage
Day 112– Oct 20, 2005, Thursday: Amacet
Breakfast was awesome, I know I write a lot about the food, but we actually got to eat toast! I think the nicest part about the breakfast was just having a little more. I like a big breakfast, and just having the buns was tough. Here we had porridge, toast, more donut holes, juice, coffee. Hmm.
Then we went to the orphanage and had an hour or so orientation by the lady that runs it. Her name is Ells; she is Dutch. She started it about 4 years ago. The place is amazing. It’s all painted nicely, the water tanks are painted with animals. It’s just well taken care of (something somewhat rare in Africa). It really sticks out as being different from the rest. Ells is an amazing lady. She basically started the place on her own. She has many people in The Netherlands supporting her. She showed us a video of when the building was built. It is really hard to believe that all of this was done in 4 years. They now have 3 buildings on that property, the orphanage, a small place for her, and a building for other staff. She told us the story one of her first orphans, Michel. She was barely able to move when she first took her in. Just having proper care and love and food, she changed immensely in only a month. Here is a picture. top left is when she first came. bottom is one month later!
She currently has 16 kids at the orphanage. She has had 60 or 70 over the years. Her goal is to take in kids that families reject. Usually the rejection is because mom and dad died of AIDS and they assume the baby has it. Apparently it is fairly common to just keep the baby around until it dies of malnourishment. They say “it was going to die anyway because it’s parents had AIDS”. Ells has had many of the babies be free of the virus despite what the families thought. Often after she cares for the babies for a few months she tries to bring them back to the families and show them that they are healthy when treated properly. She then keeps visiting to make sure that the families keep them healthy, which doesn’t always happen. Many of the kids also die in the orphanage. She said that this July was a very tough month because 5 kids died. The toughest was a 12 year old boy who was apparently doing very well. He got sick one Friday, and died the next. Tough stuff. She says that at least this place can be a way for them to die with a little respect and care and prayer, rather than the rejection they got in the village.
It’s just an amazing place. And it’s growing! Ells told us how they bought the lot one away from them and are building another orphanage for the kids that need to stay permanently. These are AIDS kids that are on the antiviral medication. Apparently it has to be given in a very timely manor and to quote Ells “many of these kids families would take their medicine for themselves because they would think ‘if it’s good for them, it must be good for me’”. So there will be a home for temporary kids and one for permanent kids.
We spent the rest of the day hanging out with the kids, holding babies, learning names, playing games. Jessika didn’t play games at all. She found Mr. Tom (a 6 month old cutie), and she just held on to him all day long. She said “I just feel like his mommy and he needs me”. It was awesome. She loved it. Jonny finally had some toys and new friends to play with. He found the train set, played hide and seek, played ring around the rosie, red rover. We just had a ton of fun loving these kids. Almost all of them have AIDS. They just need love. I must say, of all the different ministries that we have done, this seems to be where my family fits in best. We can’t wait to get back tomorrow.
Above: the baby crew! (left to right) Wendy, Aimee, Meagen, Ruth, Karen with Jessika at the bottom.
Day 113– Oct 21, 2005, Friday:
We are so enjoying Soroti, it is so clean compared to Jinja. Don’t get me wrong, we walk on a dirt road a quarter mile to the orphanage twice a day, but somehow it’s cleaner. The dirt doesn’t stick to you like it did in Jinja. There are also fewer cars and fewer smells. It’s just cleaner. The Jinja base was clean, just not the town/streets.
We started off the day with a little worship and Bible study, we did yesterday as well, I was just too excited to talk about the orphanage. Dan left us today to go visit the Sudan team.
Then we went off to the orphanage. Jess quickly found Mr. Tom again and started cradling and loving him. Wendy, Karen, Laura and Rita went with Ells to go make house calls on the kids that she has sent home after loving them. They said some of the situations were just terrible. Apparently Ells weighs the babies and counts their medications to make sure the kids are growing and getting the medicine. If things get bad then she takes the kids back sometimes. She has so many tough decisions to make though, because there isn’t enough room for all of the unloved kids out there. She just does what she can. In the morning most of the older kids head off to school, so we tended to the babies until lunch.
After lunch we took a nap because all the kids at the orphanage sleep from 2-3. Then I headed back with Jess and Jonny while Ruth kept sleeping. She slept because tonite she is taking the night shift with Meagan from 6pm to 8am. Whew! You’ll hear about that tomorrow. The kids and I just played. We got out the soccer ball. Jonny played some more red rover. Jess held Mr. Tom. It was a good day. Now, I sit here typing while my Ruthy is a few blocks away tending to the many babies all night long.
Above: Dave holding Abraham and Jessika holding Mr Tom (her favorite). She wanted to bring him home and be his mommy.
Day 114– Oct 22, 2005, Saturday: Ruth’s summary of the Night Shift
As Dave mentioned, I worked the night shift at the orphanage last night. Megan and I worked together. Normally there is only one person on at night for 8 babies and 9 children. Most of the babies have feedings through the night. Megan and I counted this morning and together we did 21 feedings including diaper changes and medications. It was amazing! I can’t even imagine doing it alone. We also had one child with tube feedings. I have fallen in love with this little one. Her name is Alabina (I call her Ali). She is 8 months old and weighs only 10 pounds. She is very sick and malnourished. Her mom is HIV+ and they think she is as well. Mom has not been able to feed her properly. It is a wonder she is alive. She is skin and bones and is floppy like a rag doll and makes almost no sounds, but an occasional wimper. Please pray for her that God would bring healing and life back into this precious little one. I just love the orphanage and the kids do too. You should see Jessika holding the babies – she is in Heaven. This week has been such a blessing to us as a family. I wish we could stay here longer.
Tidbits from Dave:
- I discovered today that the rebels did actually come to Soroti in this last year. They were here in January, and it forced the orphanage to evacuate for two weeks to southern Uganda.
- We had a salad tonight with guacamole…It was so good. Also had cookies for desert.
- I bought four pairs of shoes at the neighborhood shop today for less than $10 total
- I also bought a set of colored pencils for each kid for 16 cents a set (ouch).
- The cows here are much smaller than in the Southern Uganda.
- Our kids have a really tough time having dinner at 7:30 at night (at this base they make dinner late because some people work late).
- Kids’ favorite toy in Uganda seems to be an old tire…they role them all over the place.
- These kids at the orphanage are just so happy to play with us.
- I just don’t get squatty potties. They have them all over Uganda, and they are such a pain. They always smell, are always dirty…try holding a semi-constipated kid over one for 15 minutes.
- Seeing these almost lifeless babies is tough. It’s hard to believe people can just reject them as they do.
- We hear from the grapevine that there is now even less fuel in Zimbabwe..Pray for us there, that God gets us where he wants us.
- Next time you drink a Frappuccino, I will be jealous.
Above: Jonny breaking thru while playing "red rover" It was great for our kids to play hard with all of their new friends.
Day 115– Oct 23, 2005, Sunday: Quick trip to Soroti town
Ahhh, nothing like starting the day with laundry. Even I will appreciate the beauty of the washer and dryer compared to this manual stuff. Africa is the land of manual labor. Washing, by hand. Mowing, by machete or if your lucky a push reel mower (or really lucky is using a gas trimmer). Cooking is usually over coals. The most common transport is definitely bicycles, which are also the main way of hauling goods (unless you have a head and you are a woman, then the goods are balanced on it). Good ol’ Africa.
After washing we went over to the orphanage to take care of the babies while Ells and the bigger kids went to church. We had a nice mellow morning holding/feeding/changing/loving the littluns. We ended up eating lunch there as well, which was really tasty. We even had juice. Then at nap time we went back to base and played with some of the kids there while Ruth took a nap. I think she was a bit dehydrated. Then we took a walk to town and realized that half of the stores were closed because it was Sunday (oops). We still enjoyed looking around and had a nice family walk. One of the guys from the base drove us back in one of the pickups. Just before dinner the power went out and we ran out of water aghhhh. We actually ran out of water yesterday, but I didn’t mention it. The other building has water, so we can fill buckets and still rinse off, but it’s a pain. I’m not sure if our building uses rain water, but most places seem to around here. We boiled a pot of hot water and had the kids bathe in a bucket before dinner. They just can’t handle the dinners at 7:30 at this base (neither can we). The food is great, but by 7:30 they are so hungry and cranky, it’s just too late.
Above: Jonny playing with Chrstopher, Alex and Mary. The train set was very popular this week.
Day 116– Oct 24, 2005, Monday: Saying Goodbye to Amacet
We started off the day with some devotions with the team. It was really good. We just got some issues out in the open and prayed together and it has really made a huge difference today. It’s amazing how just getting things out in the open helps so much.
Then we cruised over to Amacet (the orphanage) to have our last morning with the kids. To our surprise the bigger kids were there all morning. Usually they are at school on the weekdays, but today was a holiday because the President of Uganda (Obote) died last week. So we played. I was mostly playing football (soccer). Jessika was playing on the swings today. Ruth was changing a lot of diapers and feeding babies. Jonny was playing with the legos.
We had lunch back at the base and then had a quick meeting about Zimbabwe. Apparently the prices of fuel have skyrocketed even more there, so it might be too expensive for us to take the bus from Harare to Bulawayo (we fly into Harare). So we prayed about our destination. At this point we are sort of leaning towards staying in Harare for the duration of our trip, but we’ll see what God’s plans are.
The original plan for the afternoon was to go cruise town, but we couldn’t handle leaving the kids that soon, so we all went back to Amacet. We had a great afternoon with them. They sang us a few songs and we sang them one. Then we all prayed for each other and celebrated with cokes, popcorn and Ugandan donuts (cake donuts with no frosting). It was really good and fun. Then we played a bit more and had to say our goodbyes because we leave for Jinja in the morning. We all talked about how we wished we could have stayed longer, but I’m not sure we would have been able to say goodbye if we did. Even a week longer and we would have gotten too attached to these kids.
Above: this is Magdelene...just one of the cuties we got to spoil this week!
Day 117– Oct 25, 2005, Tuesday: Taxi back to Jinja
The day started off a little frustrating when we realized that the taxi driver (who brought us here) showed up with a taxi that didn’t have a roof rack. We barely squeezed everything in this little van on the way here. Aghhh. So we loaded up lots of the big bags in the back seat and were all prepared to jump in when the driver returned to tell us that it is illegal to have bags in the back seat. We thought he was joking. This is a taxi driver, the same that squeezes 22 people in a taxi that legally carries 14. But no, he had us repack. Sigh. The journey begins. We prayed with everyone from the Soroti base. They are really great people. We have really enjoyed our short time with them. After saying goodbyes, we took off at about 10am.
Along the way the driver pulled over at a make shift farmers market. We tried to buy some ground nuts (peanuts) but they weren’t roasted, so we passed. He loaded up a huge bag of potatoes and brought them to the van hoping to squeeze them in. We tried to politely inform him that if we had a roof rack there might have been room, but the hundred pounds of potatoes isn’t going inside the van. He was a little bummed, but we continued on. We had our chance to buy some freshly roasted (and still warm) peanuts later on in the trip. We also saw a gnarly accident along the way that really encouraged us all to pray as we drive because the driving in Uganda leaves very little room for error and they are quite speedy. The accident was a bus (huge bus) full of people that ran head on into a 30 foot truck. I am sure there were some fatalities. It looked like they were still trying to pry the trucks apart. The rest of our journey was uneventful except for when we ran out of gas. It just happened to be right as we rounded a corner of street salesmen that were very pushy. So while the driver went for gas we were bombarded with the pushiest sellers in Uganda. They actually were forcing our sliding windows open and one of them grabbed jonny’s Thomas the train lunch box. They were actually quite disturbing they were so pushy. Luckily we bought a jerry can full of gas quickly and headed off.
Now we have been welcomed back in Jinja for a few days. It was nice to show up and know everyone and get hugs and greetings. We went over to the Kiwi couples (Paul and Karina) house for coffee after dinner. They have the two boys (Jack and Elliot) that our kids have been begging to see all week long. We had fun chatting about life in Africa. The kids had fun playing and watching “Robots”. We’ll miss everyone here as well when we leave. Ruth is actually making thank you cards for them now as I type.
One more thing for this week. Wendy, our team member, has prayed often about this and she is planning to stay in Uganda for the next portion of our outreach. Our team is behind her on this and we know that it is God’s will. We will miss her terribly though. She feels that Uganda is where her ministry is, and she is planning to help the TORCH ministry in their medical clinic. Then she will meet back up with us on our flight home. So pray for her as she will be without the team. Bless you Wendy! We’ll miss you.